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Double Divorce
The end of a marriage may mean the end of employment at a Christian college — but not always.



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Despite some public controversy over the resignation of a Wheaton College professor, several Christian colleges insist that divorce is relevant to employment at such institutions.

English professor Kent Gramm resigned this semester because he did not want to share details of his divorce with school administrators. Walworth County (Wisconsin) divorce records show that Gramm filed for the divorce on February 25, and his wife did not jointly petition.

Wheaton's Community Covenant requires the upholding of "the sanctity of marriage between a man and woman." The college's employee handbook states that the college will consider retaining a divorcing employee "when there is reasonable evidence that the circumstances that led to the final dissolution of the marriage related to desertion or adultery on the part of the other partner."

"I signed a mutually agreed upon separation from Wheaton College rather than go through a long and unpleasant firing process," Gramm told Christianity Today in an e-mail. "The reasons for a divorce thoughtfully undertaken are complex and personal, and therefore I would rather not deal with a policy such as Wheaton's." Gramm declined to comment further.

Stanton Jones said he has dealt with about seven cases of divorce in his 12 years as Wheaton's provost.

"Only rarely have we had negative decisions. We see it as a straight extension of the Community Covenant, which calls us to beyond just the narrow qualifications of our job," Jones said. "Wheaton is attempting to embody what it understands is faithful to biblical teaching."

Jones said the college offered Gramm another year at the college while he searches for another position, but he declined.

Wheaton's student newspaper, The Record, found that students are split on the college's policy. Of 920 survey respondents, 38 percent of students said they disagree with the college's divorce policy, 29 percent said they support the policy, and 32 percent said they were not sure.

Paul Corts, president of the Council for Christian Colleges and Universities, does not know how many Christian schools have divorce-related policies, but he said that it is not uncommon for them to have different professional standards than public schools.

"I think the vast majority of our schools would either have Covenant-related commitments or behavioral rules that would demonstrate the holistic nature of what it means to be a follower of Christ," Corts said. "There is no notion of bifurcating your personal life and spiritual responsibilities."

Some Christian colleges, like Biola University, Taylor University, and Gordon College have divorce guidelines similar to Wheaton's. Others do not have specific divorce policies but have requirements that could relate to divorce. Calvin College, for example, requires its faculty to be members of a Christian Reformed Church or a church in "ecclesiastical fellowship" with the denomination.

"We leave issues like spiritual discipline in the hands of the churches, so there's less of a need for us to handle these issues," Calvin spokesman Phil de Haan said.

Another Wheaton English professor, Alan Jacobs, wrote in a First Things blog post that it is impossible to teach at Wheaton without giving up a great deal of what most people call their privacy.

"When I count the cost in this way, I am dismayed, and I can't help but wonder whether there's not a better and less threatening way to implement the community's standards of commitment," Jacobs wrote. "But I don't think Wheaton would be improved by a wholesale rejection of its current communal bonds and their replacement by a strict and simplistic division of 'public' and 'private' worlds."





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elly   Posted: May 15, 2008 11:37 AM
it must be remembered, mr. bryant, that prof. gramm spoke to the media first regarding this issue; as far as i can make out, wheaton did not break the story. there was no apparent reason for this information to ever be made public. it's a very sticky issue; yet is it substantially different from the codes of conduct students at most Christian post-secondary school are asked to sign, stating that they will not do things like drink alcohol or have unmarried sexual activity during the course of their studies? as someone who once signed such a document, while having a beer is certainly not equal to the breakdown of a marriage, to me there is no difference insofar as both clauses relate to private life. and i think that's an key aspect of true community, to have private life be a community issue. i can't imagine prof. gramm's pain in losing both his wife and his job; however, i can't consider wheaton to have been unfair in exercising the stated consequences to his decision.

Deborah Solomon   Posted: May 16, 2008 9:40 AM
This issue is complex. I like most Christians believe that marriage is for a lifetime. There would be no stability in society if people divorced simply because they wanted a change. After 26 years of marriage, and two grown children that went away to college, I separated from my husband. After four long term marriage counselors there are still major unresolved issues. When both people are Christians and you don't want to make the other person bitter against God and you, how much do you say and not bring damage to the body of Christ? The absolute truth is there are no easy answers to every situation. I remember as a child, women in the church that they and their children endured physical abuse, threats and continuous verbal abuse. Some of their children had extreme difficulties in their adult lives. I believe it is of utmost importance that people seek to maintain homes of mutual respect and kindness, free from domestic violence and continuous verbal abuse.

Don Bryant   Posted: May 14, 2008 12:01 PM
What a shame to have one's name all over the press because of a failed marriage. Whoever thought they would be signing up for this when they chose to teach at a Christian college!!!!

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